The Simple Secret a Baby Can Teach You About Eating

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My iPhone was always running out of storage and this message became all too familiar: “Storage almost full. You can manage your storage in settings.”

Even after offloading storage-hogging videos and photos I still had a problem. A call to Apple support gave me the solution. Not a fun one.

The best resolution was to erase all and reset the phone to factory settings. Whoa.

That got me thinking about babies…

What babies can teach us about eating

If only people could be restored to their factory settings – like do a hunger reset. If we could restore our hunger and fullness center to when we were babies. Think about it.baby refusing to eat

A baby is hungry. What does she do? Cries, right? She signals to mom and dad it’s time. “Feed me please I’m hungry.” Baby gets fed. What does she do when she’s had enough? She stops. She pushes away, “Thanks mom, I’ve had enough.”

What if we could do a hunger reset?

What happens to us though? Why can’t we get the message we’ve had enough? Imagine if mom ignored her baby’s signal. “No sweet child you are going to eat more – I made this bottle for you and you have not finished it. Drink. Drink. Drink.”

We overeat for a multitude of reasons – availability, convenience, highly manufactured hard-to-resist food-like substances, portions, environment, conditioning, genetics. We live in an environment where we’re conditioned to overeat. And yes, we overeat because we override the sense of fullness/satisfaction.

How we eat in America

How do we eat in America? In the car. On the go. Standing up. Sitting down. Grab this. Grab that. We are lucky to even know what we’re eating. Maintaining a healthy weight is tough, really tough. Not gaining weight over the course of life is even tougher for many – especially when food is everywhere. Everywhere. We can’t get away from it.

If we could do a factory reset, a hunger reset – eat when hungry, stop when we’ve had enough – it would help. Is that the only reason some struggle with weight? Of course not, but…

By paying attention to hunger and knowing when to stop there really is no food off-limits. It takes away the good food/bad food mentality.

One of the most important things my clients work on when we begin our coaching relationship is to honor hunger and fullness. It’s one of the best ways to break away from the diet mentality. My clients use my hunger/fullness scale – read about it here.

It’s not only what you eat, but it’s also how you eat

If you want to build healthy food habits, you want to evaluate how you eat, when you eat, with whom you eat, and why you eat.

  • Is the presence of others affecting how much or how little you eat?
    • Does social pressure affect your food decisions?
    • Are you overriding feelings of hunger and fullness to fit in?
    • Do your social interactions lead to increased food intake?Are you conforming to others because you’re afraid to go against the norm?
  • Is your environment influencing your habits?
    • Do factors in your environment override your hunger hormone regulation?
    • Are you setting your environment for success – to help you manage your health?
    • Are you eating as a family around the table or is it always grab and go?
    • Is the availability and convenience of food playing a role in your choices? The presence of foods can override not being hungry.
  • Are you eating when you’re not hungry?
    • Are you eating because you’re bored, emotional, or hangry? (anger disguised as hunger)
    • Is food your default for coping with uncomfortable feelings?
    • Are your food choices influenced by emotions (e.g., happiness, boredom, sad, angry, or disappointment)?
    • Are you paying attention to and evaluating your level of hunger and fullness/satisfaction?
  • Are you eating mindfully and really savoring your food?
    • Are you chewing well and eating more slowly?
    • Are you savoring your food?

      There are many things influencing how we eat.

      What behaviors are you willing to change or new habits are you ready to start? Tiny steps move us forward to making the change to where we want to be.

      Are you ready to restore to factory settings?

      Let me help you navigate this challenging landscape.
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      Image credits: Pixababy, Dreamstime, and Unsplash

      Jennifer “Neily” Neily, MS, RDN, LD, FAND
      Registered Dietitian Nutritionist | Wellcoach® Certified Health Coach
      NeilyonNutrition.com
      @JenniferNeily
      @NeilyonNutrition

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    2 Comments

    1. hatice alsancak

      unfortunately i am also eating when I feel hungry and I do not consider what to eat

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      • Neily

        Do you mean to say you’re also eating when you DON’T feel hungry? If that’s what you mean then consider what you’ll eat for the next 24 hours. That’s it. No need to plan beyond that. Good luck!
        Neily

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